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Charlie Brawn and Not A Good Lurk

Charlie Brawn If a guy is trying to amp up his attractiveness by working out, what areas of the body should he focus on? What do women notice and want?

Male Call

Sock it to me

Q. I know I should have asked you this earlier in the summer, but since we still have another month or so of summer, maybe you can respond. I discovered

Risa's Astrology

Bearers of Truth — Jupiter Direct

Astrology is a science of constant change, always new, fresh and illuminating, following specific rhythms, cadences, pulses and patterns. Last Sunday, as Uranus began to retrograde, Jupiter moved forward in

Advice Goddess

Indifferent Strokes and Rehash Marks

Indifferent Strokes My father just got diagnosed with cancer. Most people have been extremely supportive, but two girlfriends I texted about this haven’t responded at all. Is it really that

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Color me confused, color rules for suits

Q. You often write about “good color in a man’s wardrobe,” but I’m not clear what that means. Especially given that for business the standards are white shirts and dark

Risa's Astrology

Inner Revolution — Uranus Retrograde

When planets change signs, enter new ones, retrograde back into previous ones, we change too. Our time references shift, new possibilities and opportunities occur, we speak differently, our focus switches,

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Black Tie do’s and don’ts

Q. You said in a recent column about black-tie dressing, “Stay with the basics in the suit; save the whimsy for the accessories.” Can you give a few examples of

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The Feud Pyramid

The Feud Pyramid Two weeks ago, I finally dumped my totally abusive jerk of a boyfriend. I do miss him, but I know I made the right decision. I came

Risa's Astrology

Leo – Learning How to be Leaders. Praise Needed.

We begin the astrological week with Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars in Leo, the sign of the golden lion and the sign in which we praise, recognize, honor, applaud, extol,

Risa's Astrology

Leo – Creative Fun-loving & Fiery

Everyone knows Leo is the lion of the zodiac, a fiery dramatic and creative creature, fun-loving with child-like wonder. Leo is always creating something, which helps build knowledge of the