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Work from home clothing etiquette

Q. It seems silly to think about this now, but it takes my mind off other concerns for a bit. Like many, I am now working from home with video

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Complain Crash and Legally Bland

Complain Crash My 22-year-old son’s new girlfriend is extremely pretty. She has a great figure and dresses to show it off, so I understand the attraction. However, she’s also spoiled,

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And the People Stayed Home

A poem for our times – “And the people stayed home. And read books, and listened, and rested, and exercised, and made art, and played games, and learned new ways

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In This Suspended Liminal Time

Notes on the present times – meaning, reality, purpose, hope. Between this suspended time of anguish, fear, hope, a new reality is forming. It’s all in the words & numbers.

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Meet Joe Beige And Dawn Of The Dad

Meet Joe Beige I’ve been dating this guy for a month. Things with him are really average. However, we met through a mutual guy friend, and I’m actually really into

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The best blazer looks

Q. Having some time to go through my closet, I realize I have a number of jackets from 5-10 years ago. You wrote about adjustments for old Armani suits, but

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Brave New World

Mercury turned stationary direct on Monday. It seemed a short Mercury retrograde this time. Strange and unusual, too, with the virus spreading, the stock market volatility, fear of the unknown,

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Callous In Wonderland

At family gatherings, my sister-in-law makes critical remarks about my appearance, like my shirt’s very low-cut or I might want to lose weight before wearing the dress I have on.

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Hair dye options for men

Q. How do I dye my hair now that it’s going salt & pepper? Of course, those around me will know, but I still don’t want it looking overly obvious

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What did the hat say to the scarf?

You go around while I go on ahead. Q. Since I generally remove my coat and scarf before I start my work, I have never focused on whether they are