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Reign Of Terrier

Dogs train humans to meet their demands

I know humans are typically your subject, but this is a relationship question, so I hope you’ll consider answering it. I have a new puppy (an 8-pound terrier mutt). I

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Scorpio — The sign, the person, the mystery

Wednesday, November 1 is always All Saint’s Day. And Thursday, November 2, is All Soul’s Day. A time when spirits come for a visit, when the veils between worlds become

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Romancing The Grindstone

I’m a 32-year-old woman with a really intense job that I love. I work long hours every week, and I often work weekends, too — by choice. I don’t want

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While You Were Sweeping

My boyfriend unplugs my laptop when it’s charging and plugs the charger into his, despite knowing that I need my computer charged for work. This is actually part of a

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Jupiter — Lord of Kindness, Goodness & Benevolence

On October 10th, after a year in Libra, Jupiter (favorite planet of Sagittarius & Aquarius) entered the transforming and testing sign of Scorpio. Jupiter, in each sign for about a

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Autumn’s Circadian Rhythms

I have mentioned often in my columns, website and FB about circadian rhythms. These are the rhythms of light and dark, Sun and moon, the seasonal rhythms, new and full

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Pay Pal and Check, Mate!

An older male friend keeps paying for me — buying me meals and clothes. Am I making a mistake in accepting? I’ve repeatedly made clear that I have no romantic

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Sparks And Recreation

Sex appeal matters in short term and longer I am a 32-year-old woman who has never been in a relationship with a man I’m actually attracted to. The men I’ve

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Autumn’s Dosha (energy, rhythm)

Autumn (known as “midnight” in esoteric sciences; winter solstice is the “dawn”) is a season of transition, between summer’s golden green and winter’s bare darkness. In trees and shrubs, we

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Footing The Evolutionary Bill

Finances confusing when paired with search for provider I’ve been dating this girl for just over a month, and she never offers to pay for anything. I was OK with