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Advice Goddess

Better Pluck Next Time

My girlfriends with facial hair have no problem getting dates with men, and that’s because they’re confidant and beautiful. Just please don’t perpetuate misogynistic crap.

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About The Thighs Of It

This girl I met on a dating site attends another college, three hours away, so we’ve only talked on the phone.

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The Dawg Whisperer

In the wake of revelations about Sandra Bullock’s cheating husband, I’m wondering about your take on why she’s with him.

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Curtain Maul

I’m a theater performer, and there’s a tendency among theater people that disturbs me: dreadful over-the-top flirting.

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Hope Against Nope

I’ve been seeing this guy for more than two years.

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Moment Of ‘Poof!’

This guy I met online seemed so perfect when we talked on the phone.

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Over My Dead Bodypaint

I agreed to be in a friend’s wedding, and unfortunately, she had to change the date to the day my boyfriend and I were going to Burning Man.

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Things That Go Plump In The Night

I’m absolutely appalled by your response to “Fatty With A Dream,” the woman whose boyfriend hasn’t touched her in over a year because she gained 40 pounds.

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Crouching Tiger, Hidden Drag

I love how you write about the evolutionary psychology driving us, like your recent bit on how women across cultures prioritize money and mojo in men.

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Panic Womb

Your advice to “Shell-Shocked,” the guy with the “baby crazy” wife, ignored how he obviously hasn’t read much about pregnancy at 40-plus.