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Fly In My Soup Kitchen And Oliver Tryst

Fly In My Soup Kitchen I’m a 30-something woman questioning the long-term viability of my relationship. I work for a nonprofit in a community with a high level of volunteerism.

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Codger And Me and Can’t Bi Me Lov

Codger And Me I’m a 22-year-old guy, but I look 14. Boomer co-workers often use me as an example of a bad millennial, attacking me for Dread Smartphone Overuse (conveniently

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Swarm Feelings and Dead Wait

Swarm Feelings I’ve been flirting with two guys all year. I feel a connection and chemistry with both, but neither’s asked me out yet. This weekend, I’m attending a going-away

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Mock Love To Me and Pitch-Slapped

Mock Love To Me My boyfriend has this irritating habit of making fun of my outfits or my spray tan. When I get upset, he says I’m being “sensitive.” I

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Having It Small

Having It Small I met somebody online, and we have a real connection, but he is agoraphobic and hasn’t really left his bedroom for 10 years. I have a job

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Power Tulle

Too Mush Information My friend was dying to tell her new boyfriend she loves him but waited till he said it first. She, in fact, makes that a rule. Now

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Power Tulle

Smells Like Quarantine Spirit I’m a 41-year-old married lesbian. My wife and I used to work from home together. She recently got an important job, and she’s now gone all

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Power Tulle

Why are there lots of bridal magazines but no magazines for grooms? What does that imply? —A Male Consider men’s general lack of interest in wedding planning. Of course, if

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Seize The Meh and Give Pizza A Chance

Seize The Meh I’m a 31-year-old guy who got really hurt after a relationship ended a few years back. Now I just don’t date women whom I’ll ever really care

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Buddha Heat and In The Mood For Shrug

Buddha Heat My husband and I are lucky — like that couple in their 70s you wrote about — to have a satisfying sex life after 23 years together. Still,