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Wedding Duress

One ring is all anyone can wear at one time I’ve been living with my high-school sweetheart (from 20 years ago) for two blissful years. However, he’s still married to

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Reign Of Terrier

Dogs train humans to meet their demands

I know humans are typically your subject, but this is a relationship question, so I hope you’ll consider answering it. I have a new puppy (an 8-pound terrier mutt). I

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Romancing The Grindstone

I’m a 32-year-old woman with a really intense job that I love. I work long hours every week, and I often work weekends, too — by choice. I don’t want

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While You Were Sweeping

My boyfriend unplugs my laptop when it’s charging and plugs the charger into his, despite knowing that I need my computer charged for work. This is actually part of a

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Pay Pal and Check, Mate!

An older male friend keeps paying for me — buying me meals and clothes. Am I making a mistake in accepting? I’ve repeatedly made clear that I have no romantic

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Sparks And Recreation

Sex appeal matters in short term and longer I am a 32-year-old woman who has never been in a relationship with a man I’m actually attracted to. The men I’ve

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Footing The Evolutionary Bill

Finances confusing when paired with search for provider I’ve been dating this girl for just over a month, and she never offers to pay for anything. I was OK with

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Ex-BF Wants To Be BFF

True love might become friendship … or not My boyfriend — who dumped me — says he wants to be friends (talk to me, see me sometimes), but I’m not

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When No Means No

Men don’t hear rejection unless women speak plainly This annoying guy at my gym keeps asking me out. I’m always polite, saying, “Would love to, but sorry, I’m really busy.”

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More Booze Equals More Truth?

Studies say alcohol causes emotional tunnel vision I’ve been with my boyfriend for nine months. We are both in our late 20s and go out drinking a lot with our